Have you ever asked such
question that, how can I overcome my fear? Or how can I be free from fear? Or
how can I have freedom from fear? Or how can I have freedom from fear?
Congratulation this post will actually work for you. One of the thing that is
common to everybody either old or young, men or women, black or white and any
other tribe you might think of is fear. In fact, some people has always ask one
single question all their life and that question is ‘how can I be free from
fear?’. This is because within them fear is giving them o tough-time, hard
moment and bitter life. But different from popular belief, knowing some things
about fear can give someone upper hand over it, because one adages says ‘a
known enemy is already powerless’. Here are things that worth knows about fear
that will set you free from it totally.
Fear
Is As A Result Of Wrong Expectation Because Of Fact We Already Knew:
whether t you belief it or not the fear you are having is as a result of
expectation of ‘black’ result. Most of the fears are being borne by the thought
of assumption of evil occurrence. For instance if someone you like is sick,
truly, its not the sickness that will frighten you, but the thought that, ‘what
if this person dies’, or let say the person is about to undergo a surgery,
(even if there has never been a casualty from such operation in the past), the
number one thought that will spring to your mind is ‘what if this person dies’.
Or let say a student sat for an exam,
and he performed very well, no matter how brilliant he might be, what will
cause fear in him is that, ‘what of if he fails’.
And
this is due to the fact that he knows there is possibility of failing, so also
to someone who wanted to start a new business or career. This is the foundation
of fear and panic that will then arrest your attention and concentration to
real issue. That is why its good to know that for a better control of fear
there must be a ‘proper’ control of your imagination during any ‘event’ in life.
However while the pressure of is highest at early life and youthful age (due to
peer pressure and other factors), at slightly old adult it reduces (because as
we age we become more experienced at handling issues) and at earlier age we
feel less or no fear because we understand little and our expectations are is very small.
What
We Fear Never Happen At Most Time: though this is amazing to
belief, but its actually true. Over a time of psychological research it has
been confirmed that 80% of what we fear about is never real. It has been found
out that what people usually expect to happen (that usually cause fear) it
never happens, they confirm that; while fear is as a result of our (wrong)
expectation, but what happens in life is never determine by our expectation.
This means that what happens in life are determined by God and not our
expectation and no matter how high our expectation might be it can never
dictate what happens
Fear
Agent Is Included In All Days: fear agent here means the
things that are capable of rendering us fearful. Such as unpalatable news
report, certain history we knew, what people say and other things like this.
You need to know that every day people die, every day accident happens, every
day people are hospitalized and so many things.
What this means is that element of fear is evenly distributed in each
day. The true reality here is that at all days we need to know that there are
thing that will trigger fear in us but we need not to fear, in the Holy Bible
“do not fear” was mentioned 365 times, what this simply means is that fear is
included in every days of the year and we need not to fear.
Not
All Fears Are Actually Bad: there is one popular saying that,
‘there is nothing which has advantages that does not has disadvantages’, fear
as it is, has its own advantages. This is because fear can be constructive and
destructive. While constructive fear triggers a positive action destructive
triggers no action or sadness. Fear can be constructive when it triggers a
student who has an exam to do to study hard (because of the fear of failure),
while destructive fear can make another student to develop anxiety and possibly
exam fever. While a productive fear might help you to take a solution-solving
steps in the face of issues, challenges and circumstances, destructive fear might
arrest your thinking faculty and never to know what to do.
At
Most Time Steps We Take And Fear Are Not Related: what
do I mean here? Just as I have mentioned in this post, let say someone is sick,
and his entire neighbor (because of the fear that he might die) begin to cry
bitterly. You will notice that the two are not related. Sickness and cry is not
related, sickness and treatment (to cure) is what relates. Now for someone to
start crying for such an incident does not relate, that is why I said, at most
cases fear and circumstances are never related.
Let
say in a company, the boards of directors plan to sack less productive workers,
the only thing that really help is for the employee to look for ways of
increasing their productivity drastically, but for them to start panicking,
fidgeting does not solve the situation and are not in any way related. That is
why it’s good to know that the real steps taken when we are faced with fear is
what will safe us from the bondage of fear.
Summarizing, the whole, fear
is what we should fear itself. Making a step to minimize fear and divert it is
what should be our utmost
goal for us to be productive and increase life fruitfulness.
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