You Can Be A Success- Just Follow These 10 Commandment Everyday-Prepare To Be Tire Of Success

You Can Be A Success- Just Follow These 10 Commandment Everyday-Prepare To Be Tire Of Success

 

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to have all the success while others struggle for years and never seem to get anywhere?  Are you one of those who always seem to struggle?  Below are some hints on you can become one of those who achieve success? The journey of success start from here, the following are the steps you can take to become a success truly.

1)      *Try Stepping Outside Your Comfort Zone Once In A While. Great things come to pass when you make friends with your discomfort zone. Though, boat are save at the shore but they were not made to be there, what does this means, stepping out of where you are only resting without living your dream shouldn’t be an option for you. Success require you to made part, and not depending (only) on the part others made. Success means creating your own world, not that one that is created by your parent or anyone else. The successful people are the set of people who, revolutionize the world with their creative power and belief in their self. Reaching out to your comfort zone is, trying out things you are scared of, implementing an idea you see pleasant or even learning something you never knew before, just for you to move ahead from your previous old position.

2)      *Don't Be Afraid To Make Mistakes. There is an old saying that people who haven't made mistakes haven't made anything. Make mistakes and learn from them.  Mistakes are the best friend of success, because without it no accuracy or success can be recorded. Been fearful of mistake is like running away from success, and possible breakthrough. Always make move to try, when you have any idea that seems to be profiting to your progress always try to do them.  Virtually no invention is ever successful at the first trial. Mistakes are the best ingredient to build success, ‘I mean good successes’.  There are many people in life who; because of fear of mistake, has missed one of the greatest opportunity of their life. Don’t fear mistake, the only thing you should fear is fear itself. Even, while you are afraid to make mistake you are already making bundle of mistakes. The only magic is, starting out, no ‘Mr. Perfect’.

3)      *Be Aware Of Any Negative Thoughts You Hold About Yourself - challenge them, are they really true, if so what is the evidence? Are you giving yourself a hard time? No one can destroy your mood, its only if you allow them. Your thought is your reality. Your thought is your psychology and this will determine how far or short you will go in life. Evil thought are road blocks. And your personal blockage will surely brought you down. Even while others might not be successful in bringing you down, your thought will effortlessly track you to the dust (and even bury you up). One of the greatest weapon in anyone’s hand is his thought. Anything we do is originated from thought of our heart, from it we determine what we say, how we react or response to circumstance, maybe we do something or prospone it, and above all, it’s the factory from where all things we need to succeed or fail in life is produced. That is why its said in the good book that, ‘guard your heart with all diligence’. Thought can bring happiness, it can also bring sorrow its partner. It can bring good health it can also dry the bone. That is why it necessary to have ‘The Change Ideology’.

4)      *Make An Effort To Try And Look On The Bright Side Of Things. Purposely find something positive about the issue and focus on that. You can almost always see another side of things. It just depends where your bias is. When things that make you cry happens, doing this is somehow ‘impossible’, but the only thing that help is to see the bright side always. After all, someone has rightly said, ‘if life give you lemmon, prepare lemonade’, when life give you reason to cry give yourself reason to sing. Always know that, at every time (of our life), negative always find its way to our life, the best way to get most our of our situation is to develop a mindset that has get used to challenge-solving attitude.

5)      *Read Some Good Uplifting Books, while you can think this doesn’t work, books are rich source of some of the rarest ideas and hint that settle, most dangerous life problems. Attaining success requires mind development and one of the best way to develop yourself is to read (good) books. Meaningful books that impact in you, what is needed for you, what you need to know in order for you to succeed in what you are doing, books that increase you knowledge about your career, life and other aspect of life like spiritual things as well. One of the greatest secret of reading book is that, you engulf the author’s life time experience in less than few hours. The pain he passed through, his sleepiness night, all his hustle and bustle is transfer to you (in full) without any effort. The whole work of his life time.

6)      *Train Yourself To Finish What You Start. Follow through - you owe it to yourself and others. Have you ever seen unsuccessful person, and I will show you someone who never finishes what he starts. It’s good to let you know that, not starting (at all) and not finishing what you have started is all the same thing, they are two equal but seems unequal thing. Always try will all curiosity to finish whatever you have started. For instance it was estimated that hundred of small business are started in the united state each year, only few made it to the ‘fore-front’. One of the leading cause of this is not, lacking of enthusiasm to succeed, or skills needed to get the business running, but they hit the rock because the owners lack persistence power. They abandon easily. They prefer to quit while things go tough, they prefer to drop anything that require of them to ‘try more’ several time.

7)      *Focus On The Present Moment. When you live in the past too much you stop living now. For some people they count it as seriousness. In fact, you do not need this. The truth is that at some time that we claim to be serious, we are actually unreasonably serious. The real seriousness is for you to;

·         Know what you are suppose to do,

·         When you are required to and

·         Doing it as early as you ought to doing them,

·         With less effort possible and best outcome achievable

Any other seriousness that doesn’t push you to do this is dis-seriousness. Some people because of this they seldom laugh, play, or have a nice time with people around them (even their loved ones). Real seriousness is in your ability to take meaningful steps and not in rigid-lifestyles, remember, ‘if you  are not happy during a journey, its hard to be happy when you complete the journey’. Stop been a slave of the past, admit that the past has passed away. Open your heart to every present moment you might find yourself. You can only think on the past but you can never do anything about it. The best thing you can do is to draw out lesson from it that will make your present moment a success tomorrow.

8)      *Learn What Is Important To You In Life - is it love? Is it money? Is it your family? What do you love doing? Who/what makes you happy? Let assume you cherish self motivation. This is the only mode you can get much. Discovering what’s important to you most in life is your greatest source of inspiration to you. What’s that thing that you love to do that you never get bored?  What’s that thing that you love thinking about that get you elated? These are thing you should try doing when you feel used up and drowned.

9)      *Realize That Setbacks And Knocks Are Just A Normal Part Of Life. If life were brilliant all the time we would take it for granted and not appreciate it. There something I called ‘The Change Idealogy’ in one of my books. The meaning of this is that there are some natural changes you must make in your mode of thinking. These are natural philosophy about life that we only assumed but which are not actually true in any way. Accept quickly when bitterness knocks, take setback as part of things which makes life more interesting to live in. They are the things that add up to be our history, so embrace them with all enthusiasts; always know that, ‘no condition (situation) is permanent’.  The more you can realize this the more interesting your life becomes. The more knowledgeable you are in turning things around for the better, the best your “now” becomes and the more fulfilling your future turns around.

10)   *Finish Each Day And Be Done With It. A new day is always a new blessing. You have done what you could yesterday. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense. Learn to live in ‘all-new-days’ with new personality. Always know that, yesterday has gone, approach new day with new heart, always start new day with new (good) hope, try to know that, what doesn’t happens yesterday is waiting for to day, so that it will happen always have fresh optimistic for better circumstance each day. No one can do this for you, you have the responsibility of creating an expected day for yourself each, down.